We are almost at the time of year, when Christmas is over and we look ahead to the coming New Year.
And what do most people do on 1 January? They make the statements called New Year’s resolutions.
And within a few weeks, if they’re lucky, it all dissipates into nothingness
If you are procrastinating now to put things off till 1 January, then there’s a good chance you are going to continue procrastinating instead of making the change you desire .
Do you want to change this?
If you do, then why not join me tonight in my free online masterclass…
“How To Stop Waiting For January & Make Your Transformation TODAY”
You will be able to acquire a number of tips to help you get started, and in particular, I will be sharing a process that will give an electric jolt to your unconscious mind to start making your changes now .
Click here to register and get the zoom link https://waynedonnelly.com/landing/stop-waiting-for-january
7 pm tonight in Queensland
8 pm in New South Wales and Victoria
5 pm in Western Australia
Hello again!
Let’s talk about something that affects more people than they’d like to admit – the “thinking small” mindset. You know the one: it’s that inner voice that says, “Maybe that’s too big of a goal,” or “Stay safe; don’t risk it.” Sound familiar?
This mindset can be a quiet killer of dreams, especially for high achievers in fields like accounting, finance, and law, where the stakes are high and the expectations even higher.
How the “Thinking Small” Mindset Shows Up A 2019 study from Stanford found that people with a fixed mindset (believing they have limited abilities) tend to set smaller goals and shy away from risks. And get this – those beliefs can actually shrink brain activity in areas associated with learning and risk-taking. So it’s not just a mental game; it’s biological too.
When you’re constantly “thinking small,” you end up aiming low, taking fewer risks, and staying in your comfort zone. While that might feel safe, it comes at a big cost: you miss out on opportunities for growth, innovation, and, ultimately, success.
3 Tips to Overcome the “Thinking Small” Mindset Want to start thinking bigger? Here are three ways to begin:
- Identify Limiting Beliefs 🚧 – Get curious about those beliefs that say “I’m not ready” or “That’s not for me.” These thoughts often come from past experiences or fear of the unknown. Challenge these beliefs by asking, What if I were ready?
- Embrace Failure as Feedback 💡 – It’s natural to avoid risks because of the possibility of failure. But here’s the thing: failure is feedback. Start seeing mistakes as learning opportunities instead of proof that you’re “not good enough.” This shift in perspective is a game-changer.
- Visualize Your “Bigger Self” 👓 – Take a few minutes each day to visualize yourself achieving something big. Neuroscience shows that visualization activates the same brain regions as actually doing the task, which helps build confidence. Picture yourself speaking up in that meeting, leading that project, or taking on a new role. See it, believe it, and you’ll start to make it real.
On November 13th, we’ll explore these strategies in-depth. I’ll walk you through tools and techniques to go from “thinking small” to unleashing the full potential that’s been waiting just under the surface.
This Free Online Masterclass is called "Master Your Mind : Overcome Self Sabotage To Lead WIth Confidence"
You can use this link to register now. https://waynedonnelly.com/landing/master-your-mind
Let’s break free from self-sabotage and embrace the kind of leadership that reflects your true abilities.
Cheers to a bigger future,
Wayne :)
Hey there,
You ever notice how sometimes, just when things are about to click into place… something happens? An "emergency" pops up, you start doubting yourself, or maybe you just can’t seem to get going. That, my friend, is self-sabotage, and it has a sneaky way of keeping even the most talented people from reaching their true potential.
In the world of accountants, financial planners, and lawyers, I see it all the time. I’m talking about folks who are brilliant, driven, and capable – yet, they’re held back by patterns they may not even realize are there.
Why Self-Sabotage Happens Self-sabotage usually stems from hidden beliefs buried deep in our minds. Research shows that it’s often connected to fear of failure… or sometimes, even fear of success. Crazy, right? But if you've ever doubted your worth or worried about what success might “cost” you, then you know this is real.
The Costs of Self-Sabotage Self-sabotage doesn’t just mess with your career goals; it chips away at your self-confidence, strains relationships, and can leave you feeling stuck. For high-stakes professionals like you, the stakes are high – and staying in a loop of “almost” reaching your goals can be exhausting.
3 Tips to Become Aware and Start Taking Action Awareness is where change begins. Here are three simple ways to start breaking free:
- Catch the Patterns 🕵️ – Start by observing yourself in stressful or high-stakes moments. Is there a recurring theme? Maybe you pull back just as you’re about to make a bold move. Recognize when these patterns show up, and name them. Awareness is the first step to change.
- Challenge Your Inner Critic 💥 – We all have that voice in our heads, but it doesn’t always play fair. When self-doubt starts whispering (or yelling), challenge it. Ask yourself: Is this belief helping me, or holding me back? The answer can be pretty revealing.
- Set Small, Achievable Goals 🎯 – Instead of aiming for a huge change overnight, try setting one small goal that moves you out of your comfort zone. Each small success builds confidence, making it easier to tackle bigger challenges later.
If this resonates with you, join me on November 13th for a webinar where we’ll dive deeper into these unconscious patterns and learn strategies to overcome them. You’ll leave with tools you can apply right away to start rewiring your mindset for success.
Comment or like this content and I'll send you the link to join.
Until then, keep pushing forward.
Best, Wayne
Watch the video here (4min 58secs) https://youtu.be/XqD7_lYeplU
Are you working tirelessly, trying again and again, yet feeling like you're not making any headway? It’s easy to get caught in the trap of overexertion, but here’s a principle to consider: when it comes to mental work, effort can actually defeat itself.
A few years ago, I was walking along the Yarra River in Melbourne when I saw a rowing coach working with his student. The coach, an old boat swipe with the nickname "Painus Maximus," had a well-deserved reputation for his tough approach.
I struck up a conversation with him, eager to learn something new. He pointed to his student, who was rowing with a strained, tense expression on his face. The tension in the rower's body was palpable.
I suggested to the coach that if the rower simply relaxed his face and let go of that tension, his body would follow suit, allowing him to row more smoothly and efficiently. Painus Maximus agreed, instructing the rower to smile. And sure enough, when the rower did, his strokes became more fluid, and the effort felt easier.
The Business Parallel
This principle doesn’t just apply to rowing; it’s also true in business and life. When we allow ourselves to relax, we can find our flow and progress toward our goals with ease and grace. Pushing too hard can often lead to burnout, inefficiency, and frustration.
One of my coaching clients, Andy, embodies this mindset shift perfectly. Andy has developed a simple habit: every morning, he wakes up with a smile. By doing so, he finds his day unfolds with more positivity and success.
By adjusting your mindset and embracing a more relaxed, flow-driven approach, you can create a space where success comes more easily—both in business and life. It’s not just about working harder; it’s about working smarter, with ease and intention.
A Special Opportunity for Queensland Business Owners
If you're a business owner in Queensland, here's something exciting: the Queensland Government is offering a $7,500 grant for qualifying businesses. One of the approved uses for this grant is business mentorship and guidance—a critical investment for your growth.
If you’ve been considering mentorship to help align your mindset and business strategies, this grant could be the perfect opportunity to get started at no cost to you.
If this resonates with you, send me a message. Let’s explore how we can work together to help your business flourish.
And remember, take a deep breath and smile—you might just be surprised at how much further you can go!
Have a fantastic day and remember: success flows when you smile 😊
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What beliefs are you holding that are holding you back in developing your life further?
Your life experience reveals those beliefs.
The cycle goes like this
1. Beliefs, attitudes & habits
2. Thoughts & imagination (with emotion)
3. Words
4. Actions
5. Results
If you want a different result then work it backwards to find the beliefs that you will do well to adopt.
If this resonates with you and you want to expose the beliefs holding you back then DM me for your “Belief Exposure Worksheet”.
Warning - it will be confronting. If you’re ready to expose & confront those beliefs then go ahead and ask for it now
beliefs
selfintrospection
reverseengineering
iamresponsible
personaldevelopment
What beliefs are you holding that are holding you back in developing your life further?
Your life experience reveals those beliefs.
The cycle goes like this
1. Beliefs, attitudes & habits
2. Thoughts & imagination (with emotion)
3. Words
4. Actions
5. Results
If you want a different result then work it backwards to find the beliefs that you will do well to adopt.
If this resonates with you and you want to expose the beliefs holding you back then DM me for your “Belief Exposure Worksheet”.
Warning - it will be confronting. If you’re ready to expose & confront those beliefs then go ahead and ask for it now
beliefs
selfintrospection
reverseengineering
iamresponsible
personaldevelopment
