Are you hitting the target for what you want in life?
Do you find yourself taking the shots but not hitting the mark?
What May be holding you back, keeping within your existing life is your self image, your self belief, your paradigm for life.
It’s not your fault. Although it’s your responsibility to make the changes once you are aware of the need to change.
From birth you were loaded up with programs for life by others who didn’t have an instruction manual for their own life.
If you aren’t happy with missing the target here are 3 tips for starting to make the change you desire
1. Know specifically what you want. Vivid, 3 dimensional, surround sound beauty of your ideal life hitting the target.
2. Intensify your desire to achieve your outcome. Calibrate what your desire is now. If it isn’t a 10/10, then review what can make it a 10. Your unconscious mind responds to emotion.
3. Commitment. Are you a 10/10. If you’re not then consider the rest of your life travelling on the road you are currently travelling on. Where does it lead to? What are the consequences of not changing?
What’s the cost - physically, emotionally, financially.
Is this what you want?
If this hit a chord with you and you feel like It’s time to change I invite you to see for yourself how you can make adjustments to your self Image.
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You can redirect the focus of your unconscious mind.
Harness the power of your unconscious mind by flipping your self talk on its head.
Instead of asking your negative WHY questions
eg why am I so unlucky? why do I always miss out? why am I so stupid, fat, ugly etc etc etc
Ask yourself - Why do I always land on my feet in any situation? Why do I have a life so blessed and fortunate? Why do I always succeed in whatever I do?
You get the idea?
Practice this and see what happens to your awarenesses and perceptions.
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Do you realise you operate in patterns of behaviour?
Patterns conserve energy so we don’t have to think. Thinking uses a lot of energy.
Remember when you learnt to drive and you had to think about every single action in the process. I use to be tired after my initial lessons.
Even the process became habituated then i didn’t have to think about driving, I just did it.
Patterns can be quite helpful.
Drinking patterns. gambling patterns, learned helplessness patterns, self sabotage patterns and more
Once you can recognise patterns that do not support your goals you can then learn to break or interrupt them. This creates an opportunity to create new, empowering patterns.
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When did you last stop and ask yourself “Who am I?”
You can easily get caught up in the rush of life.
You are not your job.
You are not your business.
You can have an identity for the various aspects of life…husband, father, son, brother… but that doesn’t answer the question. "Who Am I?"
Yesterday a client was discussing this topic with me. We agreed that it would be a good task to explore deeper. This was in the context of who he was before childhood trauma.The suggestion was to spend some time in the silence, in the dark , solitude to explore.
Then the question is what will you do, who will you be when you can answer “who am I?”
You will be able to stand in your power, your purpose with confidence and clarity.
What happens after that is up to you!
To your own self be true!
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